Friday, December 16, 2011

Make your impressions count…in a good way.

Here are five simple ways to make a great impression with meeting someone for the first time and everytime.

1. Be early – not on time and certainly not late. Yet, if you are running late call the person to let them know – even if it is only 5 minutes.

2. Put your phone away – unless you are waiting for a very important call, don’t only put it on silent, put it away. When you are expecting a call, let the other person know. If it happens, excuse yourself and step away.

3. Don’t use inappropriate language – even damn or crap is unsuitable, much less any other four letter words.

4. Don’t talk negative about anyone – not your competitor, boss, colleague or client.

5. Spend half your time listening and the other half talking – relationships are not one sided.

That’s easy and simple, right?

Well, one would think so. But the last few times I have met someone for the first time, they missed at least 3 out of the five. Goes without saying their lasting impression is not favorable.

Make your impressions count…in a good way.

1 comment:

  1. These are 5 simple but great tips. First impressions are very important and I have made a decision on what I think of someone in the first 1o minutes of meeting. I would also like to add "eye contact" as a must when meeting and talking to someone whether for the first time or any time. It shows interest, connection and engagement.

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